••• So in last Friday's blog I got you some tips on how to make your friendship more effective and eminent. (why am i using all complex words today 😑)
••• As i promised, I have brought the second part of the blog with the DONTs or basically things yo avoid doing or things that basically make your relationship with a person just more weak.
●○●THE DONTs
•••DONT BE OBSESSIVE
A lot of times, people misunderstand obsessing over someone for caring about someone. You have to give the other person space. Relationships/friendships do not work that way. Obsessing over someone just reduces your value and it also starts bothering other people. Make sure you give them enough time and choice. Caring about a person is fine until you start obsessing over their every action like a dumbstruck fan.
•••DONT BE SNEAKY, DEVIOUS OR TRICKY
Unlike what i just said above, some people have a tendency to do things their way. Being sneaky or devious here means cutting off or not responding to your friends and just showing a lack of interest in a relationship. Never do that for any reasons. This would make the other person feel that either they arent important to you or they arent good enough according to you. Tell them what is wrong. Tell them that you need space or you would likento take a little break or distance yourself. But never just cut them off.
•••NEVER LIE TO THEM
I know this sounds stupid, basic and typical but its true. Never lie to them until qnd unless its for something good never lie to a friend. Tell them what is wrong, even if it hurts them. Because in situations like these honesty does come really handy. Let them know where things are going wrong and make sure they understand your point of view.
•••DONT DEPEND ON THEM
Its okay if certain people make you happy, its okay if you like being around them but whats not okay is that you depending on them. You should never give them that power. Its not only about you, but you are also burdening the other person by giving them the key to your happiness. Make it a stability. Make sure you dont need the person all the time. Depending on a person can also be termed as obsessing over them.
So thats all for this blog as I end with some really important and basic DONTsbof a relationship/friendship. See ya on Monday!!
If you haven't read the first part of this blog, go click the link below>>
With love
-sarthak